Overheard on Instant Messenger (iChat)
fyi: iChat is the prettier Apple brand version of AIM (AOL Instant Messenger)...
Over a discussion of being open sexually in a relationship...(I don't know why but I get asked about this subject a LOT)
Other guy: when did it happen the first time? How many months/years into the relationship?
Me: i think like maybe 5 or 6 months into the relatinship. it started as an online chat thing, then a webcam thing which was hilariously silly. then we met the guy. it was ok, kind of fun but not the best sex ever. we had fun and we left feeling very secure and good about ourselves with each other.
Other guy: good for you . . .I don't know if I can do that, i am too insicure . . .
Me: hey, everyone is different and every couple is different. I know some couples who are VERY open sexually and some who would never "publicly" entertain the thought of playing outside their relationship. there's no right or wrong, it's each couple's and individual's personal choice and comfort level.
Over a discussion of being open sexually in a relationship...(I don't know why but I get asked about this subject a LOT)
Other guy: when did it happen the first time? How many months/years into the relationship?
Me: i think like maybe 5 or 6 months into the relatinship. it started as an online chat thing, then a webcam thing which was hilariously silly. then we met the guy. it was ok, kind of fun but not the best sex ever. we had fun and we left feeling very secure and good about ourselves with each other.
Other guy: good for you . . .I don't know if I can do that, i am too insicure . . .
Me: hey, everyone is different and every couple is different. I know some couples who are VERY open sexually and some who would never "publicly" entertain the thought of playing outside their relationship. there's no right or wrong, it's each couple's and individual's personal choice and comfort level.
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